Most popular movies today frequently have the message of "you are do it all" and hail a culture of winning. Life on the contrary, gives us both good and bad.Truly, I don't think the culture of boosted self esteem portrays an accurate picture of life(nor does is do any good). I do think that one must be able to accept the good/bad and not work in the delusion that things could be better. A nicer approach would be to accept whats given and then do the best one can to better the situation.This would not only benefit us in the future but also improve the present.
I am not suggesting that optimism is bad, simply that realism is better.
Some of my favorite movies that are have less than perfect stories:
- Into the wild
- Sunset limited
- Leaving Las Vegas
- Bringing out the dead
- Requiem for a dream
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