Persisting problem is of inconsistency.
Inconsistency of thought, inconsistency of decision, inconsistency of action.
However the main inconsistency is in the process which decides what to do.
Qn : How to solve the dual standard ?
Ans: I remember the times in my life when I was ill. I remember those times because those times were the times I had clarity of thought. The vision to be, the vision of what I am. The realization of the frailness of nature. The realization of the needless hubris.
Also, I remember the times in my life when I had faith.I remember those times because those times were the times I felt sanctity. The thought that you "fit in the world". The realization that there is someone above. The realization that things will be ok.
I think that if I remember these two things more often, this will solve the inconsistency. Solve the dissonance within.
Time will tell.............................Or not, this too time will tell